spend some money.
your best friend is DVDfab8
enjoy. It will take a blueray or dvd and turn it into any format for any device simply.
for blueray you need to select blueray rip option, and for no loss in quality select "MKV.Remux" then just decide on if you want the HD soundtrack and untick subtitles (unless you need them) most come out at 15- 30GB varies on movie. an MKV will play 1080p lossless audio in XBMC or VLC just fine in 5.1 or above. the movies dont have intro menu, warnings, or trailers by default DVDfab ticks just the main movie. This means you hit play it plays and you still get the end music and credits.
much better than iso. 20mins per rip, simple as it can get, no anyHDdvd required or other keys, mounts.
Almost streams over G wifi at 2.4ghz! which aint too quick, i think with N and a decent adapter you should be able too or just use ethernet

hope this helps
http://www.dvdfab.com/
try paying for it too (including the movies!) it allows for the company to keep updating the de-cryption on new movies. your original post suggests you want to get it all for free

btw DVDfab takes advantage of Cuda and AMD parallel
Edited by phill1978 - 10/20/12 at 7:27am