Ok lol I was just wondering. To great aircraft, but very different. I figured it might be hawx. I feel the same way, might be too arcadish. The looks have changed my mind a bit.
The game that I posted shots of, same as most people here is Flight Simulator X (FSX). Its a non combat sim, so it mainly attracts the interest of Comercial Pilots and General Aviation. There are groups like mine who do military, but there is not much point to it. I tend to fly the heavies and helos than try to simulate a dogfight without weapons. Your right tho, 4 eyes are better than 2.
I have both Pacific Fighters (with IL2 Forgotten Battles and their expansion pack) as well as Falcon 4 Allied Force. 2 Great games to play.