I havent done any side quests yet, just doing the main one and its going to pan out to around 60 hours if I continue at this pace. Pretty glorious. I cant wait to play it again as a total prick.
Anyone having trouble with DLC --- super easy but not super obvious. You have to sign up at the bioware site and put in all your codes. Then go into the game and the DLC menu click the "log in" which is at the lower left and everything you have put in codes for will start downloading automatically. If you purchased points click the buy button and it will start downloading. Not the best interface but awesomeness of the game makes up for it.