Well, getting the cable covers on the backside was a challenge with all the wires, but it's all done!
AIO plugged into pump header for power and it's 2 fans chained together and then into CPUFAN header for power. AIO RGB plugged into a fan1 on the front mounted radiator, which chained to fan2, which chained into motherboard jrgb header (they are all 12v RGB, wish I knew the difference before I bought this cooler, oh well).
I bought a 3 pack of Deepcool addressable RGB fans for 2 top exhaust and 1 rear exhaust. This came with a fan power hub and RGB hub. Power hub connected to sysfan header. RGB hub connected to jrainbow header.
Case plugged into other jrainbow header.
MSI dragon center controls AIO w/fans, the 3 ARGB fans, RAM RGB. Case is controlled by it's own buttons. My gtx 1070 quicksilver's have non-addressable RGB, but Dragon center breaks it. I downloaded direct mystic light 3 as well which let's me choose the GPU RGB colors.
And that's all she wrote. Like most things, after doing it all once it makes a lot more sense now. Thanks for the input