Interesting topic and I do qualify to touch it, but I am lost of what is the actual requirement ?
Homes does not have or use 3 phase, this is powerful source and an dangerous high voltage.
At my workshop I do have and use 3 phase, actually I have an 3 phase fine grinder motor, and I am also benefiting by having balanced small loads at its phase.
Sanyo Denki this is the most respectable fan maker, I did talk with their marketing team six months ago, they do not care to focus at enthusiasts DC fan market.
They are mainly attached with the industrial sector, if a product at their catalog matches your on requirements, then consider your self as lucky.
Minebea Matsushita NMB-MAT this has some high performance products at 25mm thickness, powerful airflow but you must to slow down their rpm for silent computing.
They lost my admiration as soon their production passed in China mainland.