1) It should fit... they are keyed to fit. The additional pins reduce resistence (and hence voltage drop) from the PSU to the motherboard. This helps makes the VRM job easier in providing power to the CPU.
2) Just use a 6-pin to 8-pin adapter. Don't worry about load balancing as the 3-wires are more than capable of running the combined 12.5A max.
2) Just use a 6-pin to 8-pin adapter. Don't worry about load balancing as the 3-wires are more than capable of running the combined 12.5A max.