Not sure why it goes up to 2.3Ghz, but have you got Cool 'n' Quiet enabled in the bios? Try downloading CPU-Z and see what that gives for the CPU speed.
For the instability, have you got the latest mobo bios and have you checked that the memory isn't unstable by setting on a lower divider/loosening timings etc?
For the instability, have you got the latest mobo bios and have you checked that the memory isn't unstable by setting on a lower divider/loosening timings etc?