Well it's impossible that your memory is holding back. Because at your current FSB, running 1:1 would give you 822mhz memory. That means there still is a lot of headroom for the memory.
And it's normal that 1066 modules are being seen as 800, since that is the standard specification. PC8500 sticks are essentially overclocked PC6400 sticks, and most good PC6400 can easily overclock to PC8500 speeds.
And it's normal that 1066 modules are being seen as 800, since that is the standard specification. PC8500 sticks are essentially overclocked PC6400 sticks, and most good PC6400 can easily overclock to PC8500 speeds.