If it's Samsung or Hynx RAM, you can make a killing scalping it on ebay and just keep 32 GB for yourself.Okay so it ended up being the motherboard!
Both ram sticks now work and i can also use XMP.
Now do i keep the RMA Ram set that i payed for in advance and go 64GB lol i mean i just use it for gaming.
If it's micron I mean do whatever. RMA it, sell it at cost or keep it for when you need 64 GB. But keep in mind by the time you need 64 GB, there will be 7000+ XMP kits out or maybe 8600+ Gear 4 kits...